Kids of divorce and dating

” This question comes up quite often for soon-to-be divorcees.

And, the simple answer should always be: “Not until your divorce is final.” But, life is rarely simple.

Protect your kids and your home life by holding off on the introduction until you're sure it's worth the upheaval it has the potential to cause.But because you are a responsible grown-up, you know that would be a really stupid thing to do.After all, you've worked hard to get to where you are today.If they end up liking the guy they will form an attachment to him.Then, if you end up breaking up sooner rather than later that sets them up for a loss that was totally avoidable.

Not only is this strategy unfair, it often backfires.