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So many of the women that write to me for advice have stories that go something like this... I never really considered him a potential boyfriend, but then he asked me out.Note: – This "page" serves to provide both an extended reading list on gender inequality and the syllabus for a graduate course based on the core of this extended reading list (well over 200 articles are included below).The readings are almost all articles (with important books represented by the related scholarly articles), and almost all readings are available on the internet.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.