An example: When inviting people to a wedding, "a T-type may take that spreadsheet approach and be sort of be detached and think about the fact that we can only invite X number of people.[Meanwhile,] the F-type is thinking, 'Well gosh, if I invite this person, then the other person might wonder why they weren't included.' They're just more focused on what is the impact of this decision on other people?But even though it may seem attractive and comfortable, being with your same type can create problems too, Overbo warned."Often what can happen in those relationships is one person ends up dominating in [each preference], and the other person has to flex outside of theirs," she explained.Was it fair of me then to blame it partly on his Myers-Briggs type? ) , I determined some types better complemented mine.The INFP was specifically called out as a strong match.I really need to get energized before I'm ready to engage in that kind of discourse.'" "A lot of times that can cause some issues" because S-types are more detailed-oriented and N-types are more big-picture.
Able to hold a long, meaningful conversation on pretty much any topic with pretty much any person (sparing you a lot of insufferable dinner party chit chat).Overbo suggests using type "as a way to really engage them further. Instead, my mind got ahead of me, and I convinced myself we weren't compatible.Say, 'Great, let's talk a little bit more about that. As an ISTJ, he was logical and detail driven; as an ENFJ, I was feeling and big picture-oriented.Though I always felt there was something impenetrable about him—he admitted people had trouble connecting with him and seemed closed—he told me he liked me."I can't wait to get to know you more," he said, the words seeming so genuine.
" "This one is the one in particular [that] can be a source of conflict." P-types are more spontaneous while J-types "approach life in a really organized, planful, and structured fashion." An example: When planning a weekend, a J-type will say "'Where is that list? I want to get it done, I want to get it done ahead of time.' And the P-type is sitting there, thinking, 'Well, I don't approach things making lists.