30 no dating experience
Listen, there is nothing at all wrong with just having sex. The problem is that most of us are so used to pseudo-dating in order to get off that when we find ourselves on what ought to be an actual date, we don't know how to act.If you're going on a date, treat it like an actual date.It'll help loosen you up and make you feel more relaxed -- good things.Of course, many of us aren't especially good at drinking in moderation.
Chances are that it's already late and, believe it or not, the streets can get dangerous for women at that time (and for men, too, depending on where you live).
If she's using you, you should be returning the favor. Dating is the result of romantic love making its way into human culture.
It exists, and only exists, because we believe romantic love to be a thing.
However, chances are that if you aren't really on the date in order to date the person, but just there to hopefully get a little action after dinner, you're going to get pretty smashed. After that, assuming both people can afford to pay for dinner, the bill should be put on rotation.
I mean, how else are you going to convince yourself -- and her -- that it's a good idea for the two of you -- two people who don't even know each other -- to have sex? But on the first date the guy should cover the tab. Because guys take girls out on dates to treat them.
If this is your first date together and you feel no urge to put in a little extra effort, then I can tell you right now that it won't go anywhere.